Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Why be in a relationship at all? - Empty Closets - A safe online ...

I have asked myself several times why one should be in a relationship at all...they are so often troubling, the highs are as intense as the lows...they are so...unpredictable!

Well this article really lays it out for you and it resonates with a lot of things in life, the very essence of relationships and the things that provide the most happiness is that very unpredictability!

Better Together: Why Relationships Make Us Happy - Personalities & Perspectives - Four Seasons Magazine

I hate predictability and routine, just my nature, but the absence of the "accident" is a sad life indeed...Fleming would never have discovered penicillin if he kept his office neat and tidy, organized and predictable if you will. That single microscopic mold spore just wafted into his office from the floor below - and changed the world!

But there was another ingredient, he was looking for something that would kill bacteria, but he had no idea what it would be.

Pasteur once said: "Chance favours the prepared mind". I think this applies to relationships as well, in this case the prepared mind or person (same thing) is in making oneself as self-assured and attractive as possible (that is all you can really control anyway) and then to venture out there, and let happy accidents happen - the very source of "happiness" which itself is always a kind of "accident"...

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?You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.?
? Oscar Wilde

Source: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/family-friends-relationships/88002-why-relationship-all.html

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